We got an official (although secret) schedule for Richard for the next two years. In the next year he will be gone 236 days/overnights, in addition to regular working hours on the times he is here. This does not include any deployment time, that will come after this.
As of right now, he is scheduled to miss:
The birth of the baby- Yeah, AWESOME right?
Baby's first birthday....possibly
Our next anniversary
I'm now taking reservations for guests/child help/insanity prventers. Seriously..... Lets say, I need at least one visitor a month from April 2011 to December 2012.